he/she does not reciprocate your feelings at all. Or you have already
gone a long distance with someone and he/she goes alone after that.
Defeat in love is very disheartening. You love some body dearly and
he/she does not reciprocate your feelings at all. Or you have already
gone a long distance with someone and he/she goes alone after that. Any
failure in love and dating takes the strength away. It kills something
inside and the defeat makes another attempt look very difficult. Is this
acceptable. Can life not be carried on after such defeats? Why get
disheartened and blame ones fate? Why lower self-esteem? Why do all that
self-beating?
Success is not our right, nor failure our destiny. Life is a hurdle
race. Every life has its ups and downs. The winner is one who gets up
after falling again and again. You will say - Easier said than done. I
agree. Failure in love is very destructive. We invest quite a lot in
love. After that when we face defeat, we feel cheated and helpless. We
feel that fate has dealt poor cards to us. It is no doubt difficult to
bear the pain.
What should be done? Analyze why this failure happened/ if you find any
fault of your own, please correct it. If you find fault of your beloved,
please forgive. Begin making contacts again. Search for your soul mate
again. Have faith that this time you will get someone real good and
worthy of your love. Forget the past. Erase it. Look at it
dispassionately and res energize yourself. It is difficult, but it can
be done.
Thinking of past failure will only bring more pain. Visualize yourself
becoming successful. Think of all the good days that are waiting for
you. Think of a future that will be very bright. Fight every negative
feeling with something more positive. Don't give up. After every fall
rise again. Success will be yours.
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