Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Love - Forgiveness Is True Love

Most of the lovers do not forgive their loved ones. They may forgive
their sworn enemy, but they may not forgive their lover.

Most of the lovers do not forgive their loved ones. They may forgive
their sworn enemy, but they may not forgive their lover. Do you agree
with me? Why is this so? It should have been exactly reverse. Why, let
us discuss.

What is love? What do we understand by loving someone? How is love
different than other relationships and emotions? In love, we give our
whole mind and heart to our beloved. We try to keep our beloved most
comfortable. We take care not to hurt our darling. In love, we care for
each other. We are in the mood of giving in love. Giving always gives
more pleasure in love than anything else.

If our darling makes a mistake, shall we berate them? Shall we blame
them and give them pain? Shall we hold it against them forever? Shall we
call them betrayer? If we do all this then it is not love, but a
business relationship. I have given you so much now you give your truth,
faithfulness and everything else in return.

In love, we have to forgive. We have to pacify our beloved that mistakes
are a way of life and everybody does them. We have to tell them not to
worry and we are with them. We have to tell them to stop thinking of
what happened and think of good things and try to live life joyously.
But a majority of us behaves in reverse. That is our failure. It was
never love to begin with. If you believe that you love your darling,
please learn forgiving.

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